The bar often finds that perfect balance between glamour and dirty sex that makes for a great night. You’ll definitely find some of the city’s best leather events, but you’ll also find parties serving up sexy boys, outrageous costumes and perfectly curated DJ sets. While it’s known for being a leather bar, L.A.’s Eagle has a vibrant queer approach to its parties. There’s also no shortage of queer bars in L.A., but if you’re looking for something sexy and friendly and laid-back but still with a dirty, edgy feel, I strongly suggest the Eagle. As in much of the city ’ s nightlife and sex scenes, there’s a breakdown in labels, which means “ Bear Only” or “ Muscle Only” parties are slowly becoming extinct, so expect a diverse and fun crowd. While DenLA is a men- only party, it works hard to create a safe space for a diverse crowd. For the price of entry you get great DJs, an open bar, coat check, multiple rooms to explore (ideal for getting naked and fucking up a storm!) and a great dance floor for hanging out and meeing new guys before disappearing back into the sling room. If you’re looking for a straight-up sex party in a club-like atmosphere, check out DenLA. They happen with some regularity and are worth checking out. Often for the price of entry, usually around $25, you’ll get an open bar, snacks, coat/clothes check and a wild sex party hosted in one of L.A. Men come to fuck and live out some of their wilder fetishes, but they also come to have a few beers and make new friends.
Sexy house parties can be dirty and sexy and sleazy (in the best way possible), but there’s also a friendly, local vibe to them. You’ll find themed Super Bowl Sunday parties and Halloween Parties and giant New Year’s Eve parties that happen in villas in Silver Lake or in Downtown lofts or in strange, rambling backyards in Echo Park that have been turned into sexy fetish-style wonderlands. Some of these are small gatherings with friends and a select group of invitees, but they’re also growing into events held in large public spaces that sell members-only tickets and host a wide selection of the city ’ s hottest men. But I will always be a fan of the strange and weird house parties that happen all over L.A. The party Rough Sex at The Eagle outfits its dancers in gear from Rough Tradeįor many, Los Angeles sex is a mixed bag of parties, cruising spots and places to go and just fuck and hang out with friends. The best thing about Rough Trade is its queer-friendly staff, who are always available to make recommendations of the lube or toys best for your needs. It’s your basic one-stop shop for lube, leather, dildos, cute underwear and jock straps - basically everything you need for fun in Los Angeles.
is pushing the boundaries of how to fuck, who to fuck, gender, fetish and the structures of relationships.īefore embarking on any sexy adventures in L.A., you should make a stop at popular Silver Lake outlet Rough Trade for all your leather, gear and supplies. Los Angeles is a city of afterhours underground parties wild, sex-driven house parties cruising bars pop-up orgies and some of the most liberal attitudes toward a sex-positive lifestyle in the world. is a city that must be unlocked before it can be experienced, but once you find the way in, I think it’s one of the most amazing, magical places in the whole world.Īnd if you’re looking to have sex with some of the most beautiful men in the world, then L.A. The city is like a secret urban fairy tale hidden behind stunning beaches and mountains and endless blue skies, contrasted by a sometimes-ugly, sometimes-gorgeous urban sprawl of stucco and post-modern apartment buildings and strange villas and tiny bungalows and edgy artists’ lofts. That’s because, unlike New York or London or San Francisco, L.A. can be one of the worst cities to visit but one of the best cities to live in. I’m originally a New Yorker, and at 30 I moved to L.A. Los Angeles is not like any other city I have lived in or visited.